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ABOUT US
Diana Milillo, PhD, LMHC-D
Practice Owner
I am a licensed mental health therapist (and social psychologist) who specializes in several areas:
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Life transitions, decisions, and getting "unstuck" - the stress of everyday life takes its toll on every aspect of our lives and can drain you of energy to get even the smallest tasks done. We can talk about envisioning more for what you want in your life and do creative exercises to help figure out where you are struggling - sometimes it just isn't clear. Transitions can include: getting in or out of relationships, deciding on a career or job change, moving, change of role or status in the family, and more.
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Trauma and the effects of trauma - My journey in learning about trauma started long before I was a professional in the field. However, once I committed myself to learning about the immediate and long-term effects of trauma - on the brain, the body, and our emotions - my philosophy on how to treat many conditions changed drastically. Specifically, learning about the ACEs study and the ways in which early life trauma affects us into adulthood was, for me, like putting on a new pair of glasses. I have done trainings, research, teaching, and speaking at professional conferences in this area. I am a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (Level II) and trained in Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), specifically for past trauma work.
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Parenting, Parent Education & Family Conflict - There is little more foundational to life than relationships. We are wired for attachment and bonding, but the reality is that relationships are not always easy. Whether parent/child, intimate, or extended family relationships, we often fall into roles, patterns, and styles of communication that can be hard to change. I help clients understand their attachment styles and bring to awareness what they expect and give to their significant relationship partners.
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I am also a professor of psychology that brings over 18 years of experience in the field to my work with clients. I am a perpetual student; I love learning and exploring new ways that can help my clients crystalize their own goals for what they want in life and move toward that path.
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License & Professional Accreditations:
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NYS License #: 012815, Expiration: August 2027
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National Certified Counselor, since 2021
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Diagnostic Privilege, since April 2025​
Ann Schuhlein, MS
Graduate Intern
My name is Ann Schuhlein. I am a Mental Health Counselor Intern. Currently, I am a graduate student at the University of Rochester - Warner School of Education. My academic background consists of a master’s degree in School Counseling and Special Education, and a bachelor’s degree in Psychology. I hold provisional certification as a school counselor in New York.
My professional experience includes working in school districts utilizing ABA therapy with students that have developmental disabilities, particularly Autism Spectrum Disorder. Other areas of experience include depression, anxiety, Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), ADHD, transgender youth, gender dysphoria, grief and loss, self-harm, divorce, relationship issues, blended families and family conflict.
I provide a nonjudgmental and supportive environment where clients feel comfortable exploring and expressing their thoughts and feelings. My therapeutic approach aligns with individualized treatment plans and goals of each client. The therapeutic interventions I incorporate into my approach include psychoeducation and various therapeutic modalities, such as person-centered therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and psychodynamic therapy.
I am committed and dedicated to collaborating with clients to provide the necessary tools to manage and overcome challenges in a healthy manner in addition to helping clients attain the goals they have set for themselves.
